Our eldest two are in middle school that offers a lot of really great after school programs. We have always encouraged them to join in and be a part of these activities. Except now the ex has told the eldest two that they are not allowed to spend more than ONE day after school during the half of the week he has them. He claims it cuts into his time. Now let me point out that he works until 5 and that they eldest two are in the programs until about 5:30. On the days he has them, if there is no program that they day they go to his office and are there at 4 pm. So even factoring in that ONE WHOLE HOUR that he has in which he is WORKING (ha....I forgot.....he doesn't really even work!), it's not REALLY cutting into his time.
Why would a parent deny their children their fun and educational after school activities just because they couldn't help make the marriage work? I could share a few theories but I think it boils down to this persons need to play mind games.
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