The Day After Fallout

This particular situation took place the day after I left the hubs with the kids. He had time to see them that day, something I have been feeling I should have never allowed.

First:

I go to pick up the kids and A says “Momma, you are a liar. Daddy says….” And I stop him right there. 

Doesn't matter what happens between the parents, YOU NEVER TELL YOUR CHILDREN THAT THE OTHER PARENT IS A LIAR!!!

Then a little while later:

I learn from A that K told the kids they would see “Momma’s true self” and that he was afraid to sign the separation agreement because it could be bad for the kids in the long run.

Again, it serves no benefit to a parent to bash another this way. And the agreement isn't for the kids to worry about, that's between the parents, lawyers, and judge.