So here it is, the very first post about some of the horrid things that have been said to my children by their father. This particular doozy took place 8 months BEFORE I moved us out of the home.
A tells me that K told A and M that I was
planning on moving out with the children. A thought that it meant he would
never see his daddy again and he was very stressed. He spent a good 15 minutes
crying as I held him and told him everything was okay. I don’t know what was
specifically said on that car ride home.
I honestly don't know why my ex told the two kids this. At the time, he wasn't speaking to me and not once did he ask me if I was leaving him. At this point, I had already spent 16 months doing everything I could to leave him (got a car, trying to get a new job, research apt options available to me, etc). And when I left 8 months after he told this to his kids, he acted completely shocked. I did not once tell the children anything until the day I moved us out.
I have heard everything in the book from my ex's about the kids and his ex about their kid..I could go on and on about how bad it can get. I guess if I had to go with a topper I had a child with my husband now almost 5 years ago she went around telling people that I did it out of spite and broke up their happy home..They weren't together for 3 years before I got into the picture. We just found out that we are 5 months pregnant and that I hid it from my husband for this long and it pushes her further out of the picture and all she could say was really?? I was like Bitch the last time I checked he and I were married and last time I knew I didn't have to ask you to have sex with him or reproduce for that matter. She's a dillusional gold digger that will get what she can for nothing..on top of telling people hes a dead beat dad that doesn't pay. He pays her 400 a month for one kid that she doesn't even spend the money on her and stupid stuff..Like I said the list is endless and not to mention we barely get to see the child..and when we do she's spiteful and very mean to me her step mom at 7 years old it just gets worse and worse..
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